It takes courage to love an independent woman. If you're not independent yourself, then it is very possible that she will hurt your ego. Not because she wants to, though. But because independent people don't know how to live in cages.
However, loving an independent woman might help you become stronger yourself and teach you valuable lessons in life. She can teach you the significance of confidence, personal strength, freedom. This is what makes independent women so lovable, after all.
Unlike any other woman, this one knows how to take care of herself and not to depend on others. She has built high walls around her heart, as well as high self-esteem. And she made sure that only a real, genuine person will manage to see her in her most vulnerable form.
Building such walls was her way of protecting herself from toxic people. She's actually been hurt many times, and she learned her lesson well. She needed something to shield her soul from people with mean intentions.
It needs a tremendous amount of effort into letting an independent woman know she can trust you. It means being patient until she opens up to you. It also means making her needs your top priority and taking care of her soul whatever it takes. And don't even think about changing her unique personality.
So, if you want to reach to the shielded heart of an independent woman, first you need to understand her extraordinary nature. She won't let you in so easily. She will not share with you her wildest dreams the first time you glance at her. She won't trust you until she is certain that you wouldn't hurt her intentionally. Because letting someone else into her world again would be extremely difficult for her.
That special woman is used to dealing with life on her own. She'd never show you she needs your help. She would never allow herself to be weak in front of you. But this doesn't mean you have to leave her to do everything alone. This means you need to see through her toughness and offer her your help anyway.
Hopefully, you weren't too late. If she was on her own for too long, she might have gotten used to it. And after a long time, independent people just come at peace with the thought of being alone - they love spending time with themselves because they're confident and strong. They will need to find someone who is truly worth it to share their lives with them.
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