Romantic films tend to end at the big kiss. Real relationships carry on into a much funnier place: shared kitchens, unequal heights, chores, snacks and inside jokes that nobody else would understand. Psychologists who study couples often point out that small, everyday moments of attention, such as a note, a shared laugh or a silly gesture, matter at least as much to a relationship as grand romantic plans.
This collection gathers photos that couples posted on Reddit, Imgur, Twitter and Instagram, mostly between 2013 and 2019. Some are sweet, some are pranks, and a few are classic cases of a partner following instructions a little too literally. Together they show what love tends to look like after the honeymoon phase: less candlelight, more pasta letters and crisps.
Each photo is credited to the person who posted it. A few of the original social media posts have since been deleted; where that has happened, a short notice marks the spot.
Then and now
Two cats sit side by side at their food bowls, first as young slim cats and then two years later, visibly rounder. The Imgur user who posted them captioned it "first date vs two years together", a gentle joke about how comfort and good cooking change a couple. The same picture is used as this article's preview image. Credit: LeyMarie / Imgur.
Food, notes and housework
Asked for a "country style" breakfast, a girlfriend served a bowl of grains and greens topped with a fried egg whose white was shaped into the outline of a country. It is a literal-minded pun that took real effort with a frying pan. Credit: u/pillowtalk318 / Reddit.
A cat's paw and a set of human fingers poke under a closed bathroom door at the same time. The poster joked that she could not get a minute alone between her boyfriend and their cat, a scene familiar to anyone who shares a small home. Credit: u/xxnancyyxx / Reddit.
A potted aloe sits next to a handwritten poem that starts like a classic "roses are red" verse, then realises the plant is not a cactus and ends with "Aloe you VERA much". Plant puns are a cheap and charming gift, and this one went viral on Reddit's r/funny. Credit: F1uffydestro / Reddit.
A husband whose wife appreciates help around the house sent her a set of dramatically posed photos of himself vacuuming, doing laundry and cleaning, each shot with a strong hint of a romance-novel cover. The chores were real; the theatrics were for her amusement. Credit: u/dirty-ol-sob / Reddit.
A lint roller hangs high on a kitchen wall, far out of reach. The poster, who is much shorter than her husband, said he had been leaving things in places she could not get to. She shared it on r/mildlyinfuriating, which says everything about her mood at the time. Credit: u/Kimmer22 / Reddit.
A half-eaten cake in a plastic tray carries a firm message written on the lid: you already ate yours, go away. Sharing is a big part of marriage, the poster joked, though apparently not when it comes to cake. Credit: u/bizcat / Reddit.
Pranks and puns
In July 2016, Heidi Stephens tweeted that she had arrived at tennis to find her boyfriend had swapped her racket for a frying pan. The tweet has since been removed, but its text survives here:
Just got to tennis. Boyfriend has taken my racket out and put a frying pan in instead. I'm not even joking. pic.twitter.com/HD8YOAqfJ2
— Heidi Stephens (@heidistephens) July 29, 2016
(This post is no longer available on X.)
A husband who did not feel like carving a jack-o'-lantern still did the job, sort of: his pumpkin's carved face is replaced by the words "My wife said I had to". It is protest art and compliance at the same time. Credit: u/kalypso45 / Reddit.
A new hand towel printed in typewriter letters admits to spending the day in pyjamas, notes that the kids are still alive, and then demands thanks and a compliment. It is a cheerful nod to how invisible a full day of parenting can feel. Credit: u/toremygooch / Reddit.
A seafood platter of crab legs and shrimp comes with a small fork, and the diner's caption is a pun about a fork that was "for the crab". Wordplay at the dinner table is a time-honoured couple's sport. Credit: u/Handmacher / Reddit.
A rubber rat left as a surprise for a husband was originally shown here in an Instagram post by Summer S from 2013:
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Alphabet pasta spells out a thank-you message on a dark tabletop, with "fiori" pasta shapes worked in as a pun in place of the word "for". It is a reminder that a note does not need paper. The original Imgur poster is unknown. Credit: Unknown poster / Imgur.
Another Instagram post, from Judy Blomquist in 2016, joked that nothing is "yours" in a relationship, only "ours". It is no longer online. The joke is fun, but most couples still keep a few things that belong to just one of them:
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Following instructions a little too literally
Asked to put the pillowcases on the pillows, a husband did exactly that, laying the empty cases neatly on top of the bare pillows. It was posted to Reddit's r/MaliciousCompliance, a community devoted to following a request to the letter while missing its point. Credit: u/BitchCobbler / Reddit.
A Valentine's Day card insists, in a tumble of hand-lettered words, that the giver and receiver are not really together, that the card means nothing and that there is not even a heart on it. Reddit users loved it as a perfect picture of early-relationship nerves. Credit: yupyup98765 / Reddit.
A sticky note on the fridge says the milk has gone bad, and inside, the milk carton has been given a scowling face and a bandana, like a cartoon villain. The poster said his wife had been waiting two days for him to deal with it, so the hint got more creative. Credit: u/danspud69 / Reddit.
Bathroom pranks, snack bribes and alibis
Instagram user Alex Kurtagic shared a prank his wife played on him in April 2019:
Alex Kurtagic (@alexkurtagic) on
And in 2014, landon d. mise posted what he heard from the bathroom after one of his own pranks:
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A trail of potato crisps leads across the bed toward the bedroom door, where a hand holds out a can of Pringles. The poster's girlfriend wanted him up, and he admitted the snack bribe worked. Credit: u/AberrantConductor / Reddit.
A roadside sign reads "At the Office Sports Bar & Grill". The joke writes itself: when his wife asks where he is, he can honestly say he is at the office. Bars with names like this exist in several US towns for exactly that reason. Credit: u/SufficientTower / Reddit.
What makes a shared joke work
The best moments in this gallery have one thing in common: the gesture is small, but it is aimed at one specific person. An aloe pun, a pasta message or a milk-carton villain says "I know what will make you laugh" more clearly than an expensive present could.
Pranks are a little different. A swapped tennis racket or a rubber rat can be hilarious when both people enjoy that kind of humour, and less so when it costs someone a booked court or a real fright. The photos capture the setup, not how the other person felt afterwards. A good rule is simple: the joke is only a success if you are both laughing at the end, and either partner can say when a running gag has run its course.
For more everyday humour, see our gallery of married-life memes about chores, plans and everyday compromises.
Sources: LeyMarie on Imgur; r/funny on Reddit; Heidi Stephens on X; Alex Kurtagic on Instagram; landon d. mise on Instagram; Wikipedia: Malicious compliance.
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