tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7064777598104498166.post7106837602157683556..comments2024-03-28T11:55:33.805-07:00Comments on Thinking Humanity: Why Emotionally Intelligent People Are Hard To Find But Highly Sought AfterUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7064777598104498166.post-45128851050177189762016-10-19T20:01:48.336-07:002016-10-19T20:01:48.336-07:00I always thought to be different amongst my peers ...I always thought to be different amongst my peers and coworkers even family. I never knew such a thing as EI, but now things make sense, now i know why all this time i play as a "referee" or better yet like a mediator for things. I always felt you can present logic to someone with the EI factor missing and they get it, but present that to someone that has EI and you end up with more questions than with answers, due to there sensitivity for things, lets say sometimes EI person sees the bigger picture. ThanksJonathan Battagliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14025396810692467036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7064777598104498166.post-36853183075639140262016-05-01T03:02:29.121-07:002016-05-01T03:02:29.121-07:00I cope by being myself. I did have a pretty rough ...I cope by being myself. I did have a pretty rough childhood, abuse, neglect, abandonment so yes I had to learn why and as I did I guess I became more in tune with my EI. My conditioning was mild since no one gave me the time of day and truthfully I am thankful for that. I lived in my own little imagination bubble for a long time, but it didn't cripple me as hard as I thought it did. Narcissim isn't all that bad, narcissists have very good boundaries at times and I need to learn how to do that because being empathic all the time can take away a lot from the self and your energy. Ex.people take advantage of your empathy so you have to put up some walls to avoid losing yourself in that relationship. I learned that the hard way. Generally speaking it's hard to have developped EI in world where people like small talk and small things. I take comfort in looking for peers or just reading, writing, arts and such lately. I bet we're not the first people or the last with this "condition", I also take comfort in that. Otherwise I see it a treasure and a huge asset.Fleur de lishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06199428275825031670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7064777598104498166.post-68984384516090118362016-03-04T20:32:37.085-08:002016-03-04T20:32:37.085-08:00I would say that an emotionally unintelligent pers...I would say that an emotionally unintelligent person would be like a narcissist...one who could really care less about anyone else but themselves :-).Canadian_Markhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16989749295310121256noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7064777598104498166.post-7864213431557840402016-01-04T08:25:54.806-08:002016-01-04T08:25:54.806-08:00I consider myself as someone with high EI. I agree...I consider myself as someone with high EI. I agree that this is a rare charateristic and I have to say it makes me shy away from people beacause I feel like I'm dealing with children while dealing with adults. It really can be very exasperating, I often feel alone and that I have to be like a pacient parent, always having to explain why certain choices are better and should be made. I feel attacked and disrespected by the world. That sometimes brings me to a state of numbness as to not feel discouraged and frustated. I find meditation, studying of good comunication and assertivness tools and general taking care of myself helps. Also, I believe that this is a trait of more advanced people and therefore feel a responsability to lead/teach by example. It has also taught me to try and be more respectful of people's limitations.Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14459711578157283296noreply@blogger.com